CYBER SPACE IS A VIRTUAL HOME FOR MANY. BUT WITH NEWLY EVOLVING WAYS TO VICTIMIZE INDIVIDUALS, THIS HOME OF HAPPINESS IS TURNING INTO A BURNING HELL. THIS BLOG BY DEBARATI HALDER DISCUSSES TRENDS AND ISSUES OF CYBER VICTIMISATION AND WAYS TO PREVENT IT. PLEASE DO NOT POST YOUR PERSONAL PROBLEMS HERE. INSTEAD, WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO VISIT OUR WEBSITE http://www.cybervictims.org/ AND CLICK ON THE 'FEELING VICTIMISED'BUTTON.THE COPYRIGHT OF THIS BLOG LIES STRICTLY WITH THE AUTHOR DEBARATI HALDER
Friday, January 25, 2013
Now India can boast of an anti-stalking law
Monday, November 29, 2010
Mobile phones : some thoughts about victimisations done through it
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
The lawyer says: what are the Indian laws to prevent cyber stalking?
The American laws, the English laws and even the Australian laws identify cyber stalker as one who has a *motive to harm* the followed person.
Indian law specifically does not mention anything about stalking or cyber stalker. If you want a very technical legal answer , “cyber stalker” is actually a free bird in
But readers, don’t think that the cyber stalker can stop within the blue screen of the computer. I know several cases where the stalking actually started inside the net and the NET spread outside the internet also. In my earlier posts I have given many examples of such online –offline stalking. I am sure, many of you my readers, can relate the story to your own cases, even the cases of some of your friends too. Do you know why such incidences are becoming “common stories”? It is because of the Victims of stalking. Be it a man or woman , the victim feels scared first and then feels “why should I report ?” better hide than be object of discussions .Come on, if you don’t report then who else will?
Monday, July 27, 2009
Are you pulling your friend in the vicious net?Cyber stalking, Part:2
contd from my earlier post....
The last point that I mentioned in the previous post was about CCing the mails. Believe it or not, this attracts cyber stalking as well. I was completely oblivion of this fact (excuse my innocence) until and unless one senior friend of mine pointed out that sending bulk mails is actually a way of pulling your friend in the vicious net . You may have several people in your “list” to inform the good news or even a bad news. You don’t have time to mail every id individually. But then you must remember that the recipient may misuse the email ids he receives in the bulk mail. Well it need not be him, but it could be someone else who may have hacked his email id. Such bulk mail gives a large number of “games” for the hacker and in no time you may find your own email id is hacked as well.
But could CCing be so dangerous? Probably yes. I have one friend who had two ids in her list and whom he used to mail regularly. Well, he knew that these two people had a romantic inclination towards each other in real life but he didn’t know that the relationship has turned sour. The female recipient had put the mail in the spam list and never looked into the content. The male recipient found out his long lost ex sweet heart and immediately took up the thread to continue virtual war. He mailed almost all the recipients of the said mail to know her where about. Some knew the relationship some didn’t know. Virtually he traveled half the globe, reached hundreds of friends and made the girl understand he still remembers her “rude” rejection. Now who is to be blamed for rolling the ball? My poor friend had to close his “doors” in the internet for few months until the war died down again with the help of another common friend. But this is not an uncommon story. This happens to many email users who unknowingly invite trouble for their friends. I suppose the only way to avoid such embarrassment is to stop CCing any personal mail to your “bulk of friends”. Instead, BCCing is better where you may not only save time but you can also spare your friends from falling prey to stalker.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Cyber Stalking in the Indian cyber space: Part 1
1. through your blogs,
2. your social networking profiles
3. your websites
4. your albums in the internet
5. your views for other’s blogs
6. and last but not the least, when you are being CCed by your friend in a bulk message.
I have watched that when you start a blog, you are given option to invite “outsiders” to visit your blog and comment on your blog. You can strictly moderate the comments. But many don’t do so and thereby giving an open invitation to many troubles, one of which is obviously stalking. Social networking also encourages stalking. It is rather an open gateway for stalkers to come in and start stalking especially when you have not used “lock buttons”. The same goes to your website, your albums and your views for other’s blogs. Infact it is true that people express their views, albums, about themselves etc in the internet to get noticed by the millions of net users worldwide. But then do remember that you are being followed by thousand pairs of eyes. Now, we must remember that all stalkers are followers, but all followers are not stalker. Who are the “followers”? Several cyber psychological, cyber criminological, cyber legal articles in peer reviewed journals as well as popular magazines talk about the nature of cyber stalker. One can understand that when a “follower” harmlessly follows any cyber “netizen”, say for example, his blogs, his website his social networking profiles and finally tries to reach him / her through his contact informations, preferably emails etc , he may come with a genuine interest to know the person he is following. He is not a typical “stalker” because he does not intend to harm the followed person. Well, I do follow numerous people in the net. For instance, I am a die hard fan of actor Ashis Vidyarthi, the noted “criminal” of many block buster Indian movies. I started following him in the internet. I read numerous articles about him and finally one day I got him in the Facebook. I first checked whether this was the real profile of the actor or not by checking with my cousins who are in his friends’ list and then approached him to be my friend in the Facebook. Did I stalk him? No, I just followed him. Next in my list was Jayne Hitchcock, President, WHOA . This wonderful lady, who was my main inspiration for opening up the CCVC, had been a “mysterious” figure for me until the day I found her out in the internet. I became a proud member of WHOA and I started following her write ups to know her personally. I never missed any links she gave in the internet and finally I could “see” her in the Facebook too. I came to know about her family, saw her wonderful mother, her lovely dogs, and even her favorite dishes too. I still “follow” her (readers please excuse me for my habit of “following” only *celebs*. But I can’t help it). Well, I do *follow* but don’t *stalk* and I don’t do any crime. But then if anyone follows any individual with a vengeance, it certainly doesn’t remain a pleasant experience for the “followed” individual and then the act turns into “stalking”.